Fly Friday

Salaam...
Hye people (^__^)
good morning & have a fly friday....
tomorrow is weekends! yippie! honestly at this very end of my pregnancy all I wanna do is sit at home & relaks with Dinah & HUbs... But well, Hubs gotta go to work to make sure before I deliver everytg is set up for his trainees...
Hmmm... I feel sorry for him having to do all this simply because he doesn't want me to wait up for him.. Everybody know that its not very pleasant to have to go to work on weekends.. :'(
Its okay baby sabar2 bit2 je...Soon everything will be back to normal In Shaa Allah...
Allah will always be with those who 'sabar'

Anyway, on tuesday We went for my 2nd check up.. I was feeling a bit sick bcuz of the mild contraction.. Felt like throwing up, dizzy & all... So Doc scan the baby, evrytg is okay just that they did a urine test to see if its really contraction or just urine infection... & also they did CTG to monitor baby's movement, heartbeat & how strong is the contraction..
I had to lie down for 20min for the result.. & Alhamdulillah everytg is oukayh just a urine infection.. Well it is harmful to the baby but still manageable...
Doc gave me antibiotic & also a Ural water..
So far its working, no more pain..
Knowning that any day now the baby will come I can't really sleep at night, Hubs had to put his palm on top of my stomach then only i can fall asleep.. eleh, nak daddy pegang je eh baby? terus senyap & tdow.. If not means u main futsal dalam perut mommy..

Next check up will be after raya haji, I don't know if it will last that long..huhuh.. I really cannot wait to see this lil one... Hoping that he/she will come way before the due date... why? I don't know I just can't drag myself to work anymore... People around keep on asking why am I still
working... haha.. Well, I wanted to rest moreeee after delivery.. I wonder why private sector only give 60 days maternity leave rather than 90days?

Baby's stuffs Alhamdulillah all complete, only mattress left.. But my truly awesome officemate wanted to get for me.. :') TQ ladies!
well, nothing much to say really basically I am waiting for the big day... Hubs said that he will cook for me.. hehe~ can u feel the love? Well TQ baby u really truly my hero...

Ok then back to work!

Ngidam yg paling last..Haha!! Not

Salaam...
yuhuu hello lovely ^_^
if ada story means everyday bakal ter update la blog ni, if xde story kita senyap je kan?
x baik la, sorry dearest... sedang menunggu hari maka chances to update tu agak terhad...
x larat sangat sangat sangat dah skrg ni... plus false alarm dah makin kerap... Meaning the Braxton Hicks contraction tu dah rasa2 dah.. amboih dah lupa sakit dia, sekali kena balik eh sakitnye pulak! today 2nd check up dkt Al-Islam.. Hopefully everything will be ok..
Lagi best if time check up tu bole trus admit...haha!
Actually tk larat dah hoiiii nk angkut perut beso ni...

btw, sunday Mr HUbs ajak pegi last minute shopping to get some of my stuffs yg belum complete... akhirnya everytg completed..
eh wait! blom la.... pump blom smpai, akar periuk blom beli, foods dalam pantang lom stock lagi, the rest Alhamdulillah dah complete... ouh ya, my dearest officemate dengan baik hatinya nk belikan baby mattress.. :') so nice of them! dpt la we save a bit....
nk pkai duit byk after delivery ni... In shaa Allah HE will make it easier for us... Ameen~
So we went to Au2 je... grab the stuffs & we also went for my last craving food! Nandos baby!
ok enough blabbering lets see picture...

my food! tapi mkn x byk pun.. last2 Mr Hubs je yg habiskan...

meh2 nak ambek gamba dgn budak gemuk ni!

this is so adorable! at 1st she was afraid of this but after that she went & took the bag & penguin away... I was laughing my heads of! It was so freaking funny... awwww! I will definately miss her... sbb I have to focus on the baby a bit more.. but I told Hubs that I want her to sleep with me or him so she won't feel left out...

Delivery/confinement checklist

Salaam...
Hello people ^_^v Honestly I really wanna know if anybody read my blog :'( well yea, I love to write just to express myself... If u stop by leave me some love dearest comment or smtg..hehe... Just to get to know u :-)

Anyway,
Since I'm on my last trimester & waitin for the baby to pop out.. So I just wanna share my confinement checklist... I loveeeee to read about delivery,hospital bag, baby's, confinement checklist... Hehe... SEriusly its my new fav thing! I can go for hours to browse thru that kinda blog..& me likey!

alright so here we go,

1. Bedak Sejuk(mydin is wayyyyyy cheaper from kedai mamak)
2. rose water (bought 2 types just to compare- Mustika Ratu & SariAyu)
3. herbanika massage oil (I prefer Nona Roguy brand)
4. Pil Binari
5. Mandian Herba TYT(before this mama yang buat traditionaly but now dah x buat dah :( )
6. Lulur Badan ( the cheapest of all, now kan banyak yg modern type.. But I'm gonna try the
oldies way.)

Fluffy slippers for me! (^_^)v

In Shaa Allah later will share with u guys my supplement :)

Antenatal check up at Al- Islam

Salaam...
Hello people! (^_^)
been awhile since I last update, well been busy & the tiredness kinda drag my entry...
No mood really bcuz I'm totally flat after goin home. I would cook & eat after that straight to bed. The best part is that I felt so tired but can't really sleep. :( I think my body is trying to prepare for once the baby is born. phew! struggle to the max! Honestly this time will be more challenging whereas I will be woking after 60 days of maternity leave & also planning to mommyfeed exclusively In shaa Allah.

Back then with only Dinah & my mum was helping out A LOT! I managed to rest... But now with Dinah plus new baby plus my confinement. SubhanaAllah! May Allah give me the strength to cope with this again. Ameen~ Now I am totally swollen.. seriusly, I feel like lying down all the time even sitting down makes me uncomfortable..
Anyway, on tuesday we went for our 1st antenatal check up at Al-Islam Medical Centre@ kg baru. We need to have at least @ check up then only we are entitled for the package. In Shaa Allah.. Hey Lil Ninja stay put yah, wait for a little while please? so we can help daddy ease his worries a bit?

So right the check up, I was checked by Dr Rosilawati. Very friendly very humble & cheerful dr. I can feel the warmth in her voice. compare to gov clinic(I'm sorry not to brag but the gov nurse were very harsh & loud & the dr were lifeless from the way they speak they check & scan baby, I can barely feel excited)& plus husband was not allowed to go in with wife for scanning.. Mr Hubs was a little distrated by work, I'm sure this is bcuz he didn't had the chance to 'meet' the baby in person.. After we're done with the check up he can see the baby in person( well on the screen actually :p) He looked nervous & yet excited! See? the connection & vibration u'll get if u can actually 'meet' the baby urself?
I weight 79kg now, baby is healthy & Thank Allah the Almighty baby is already in the loop. anytime now. I just hope that a day before deliver there will be sign, u know like blood or mild contraction. Hospital bags are ready in the car. Told Hubs to be prepare & stick with ur phone ALL THE TIME! hehe... bcuz knowing him if he is working he will get carried away & distracted so easily.

Next check up will be next week In Shaa Allah. May Allah protect us from evil eyes. Ameen~
till then see ya!

tadaaa! our 2nd precious Lil Nunu
frowning?? Don't worry baby everything will be just fine. Mommy & daddy will alway sbe here for u :)

Pengalaman di hospital kerajaan

Salaam...
ALhamdulillah... syukur Allah berikan ketenangan yang aku impikan...
Honestly, I was a mess thinking about the issues day & night...
I've had few days of sleepless night regarding this...
If u ready my posts in facebook U'll definately know what 'issues' I'm talking about...
Its a veru very sensitive issue really. Well at least to me...
I'm not a pious person, just a normal muslim who wants to make sure she can try her very best to protect herself from any 'fitnah'. & also a mother & a wife.

Alright to those who don't have any idea what am I blabbering about here is a bit & pieces of recap of what really happened.
On monday I went for my normal routine weekly checkup at the klinik kesihatan kerajaan. I was on my 36weeks/9 month, my baby might pop out anytime now. IN shaa Allah.
2 weeks before that they informed me that my baby was in a breech position. & they will check in the next checkup if its still breech thay will refer me to the hospital.

So they checked & positive that my baby was still breech. so the doctor quickly refer me to Hospital Ampang. Me bein all panicky almost cry on the way to hospital.
We reached at the hospital & went straight to the emergency for pregnant women.
They registered my name & asked me to wait. After awhile they asked me to change to their hospital clothes & asked me to lay down at 1 of the bed.
before that I told Mr Hubs to stay with me, but the nurse said no husband is allowed in that room. Ya Allah! I wanted to go so badly mainly because all the doctor were men! Non lady doctor available at that time. They went in & out freely in the room.
I was shaking badly & my hands & feets were numb.
After that a Doctor came to me & asked if I've been check, so I said no. He quickly uncover my covered stomach & started touching it! Ya Allah! what have I done??? this is not right, this is haram! thats my aurah he is touching I quickly cover myself after he finished.
After that experience I went to my husband & told him I don't want to deliver here. Mr Hubs went to the counter & asked the nurse if there is any lady doctor available at all & can we book. The nurse said we cannot book doctor, its all depends on the availability. Imagine if when I'm ready to deliver & only man doctor is available at that time? does that mean he will be seeing my other aurah? the one that is very very secret to any women?
Astagfirullah I just can't let that happen. I was so worried.

I told hubs that I really can't go thru that again & if given a choice I don't want to deliver here. After that hubs suggested that we went to Al-Islam Medical Centre. Yes, the fees is quite expensive but In shaa Allah we will manage. Plus Allah is the greatest planner & provider. We put our faith on that. Allah will help us if we work hard if we believe if we ask from HIM. In SHaa ALLAh! Ameen~

After I read this blog over & over again I'm sure about my opinion.. Alhamdulillah, TQ Allah!
to those muslim women please please open ur eyes & change ur mind about this issue if u think its ok for a male doctor to touch & treat urself.. Please my dear there is no 'darurat' terms in this case. there are still alot of lady doc u can choose.. MashaAllah please have some mercy towards urself & ur husband.. Of course u don't want to drag him to hell with this issue.. Aurah is not something small my dear.. believe me Allah will reward us if we try, mb the baby that we carry will listen to us be somebody good. In shaa Allah... Ameen~
& to husbands, please take care of ur wife. we are ur responsibility. protect us like u will protect ur mother. In shaa Allah u'll be a great A class real man! Ameen~

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pray for my family murah rezeki k? tq. ^_^